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Each has their own flaws and fine points. So yes dear, there are sharp expats living and working here, asshole lawyers and otherwise. I can be happy without those shiny branded goods you care so much about and yet there is no god in my sincere. I'm Indonesian student who lives in Sweden for some times now. Of course I had a crush on her, even though she was far younger than I am. He told me he's sorry for introducing an asshole to me, he said never try to find out about that bule guy no more.

I am very experienced in being rejected by Indonesian girls on date. I never meet an Indonesian girl in a public place such as a mall simply because they would never even think about approaching me or flirting with me, they know which type of Western guy they want and i don't meet that criteria. I had many dates with Indo girls i met on dating sites and the ones i felt chemistry with never felt the same with me. Indonesian girls will never downright reject a guy because they don't like to be rude and they don't like to confront somebody with something negative concerning this person. They don't like to hurt someone's feeling. So they use a different strategie. They will never tell you they don't like you because you are short or ugly or boring and that they never want to meet you again. Instead they will pretend they are interested still and that they would still like to meet you again even they don't have any intention to ever wanna meet or see you again. But they will give hints by telling things to you in a certain fashion. It may sound still ok but the real meaning, the underlying meaning of what they tell you is completely different to what they say. I know most bule guys don't have any experience in being rejected by Indonesian girls, most bule are so attractive and hot in the eyes of indo girls that the indo girl will feel instant chemistry with them and she only thinks about how she can bed him asap. But i am very experienced in the rejection game and that is why i learned when an indo girl is not interested. So lets look at some prases indo girls tell you when they do not like you and mean the exact opposite Harry: So what do you think about me?? Girl: I think you are a very nice person Harry. Girl: Yes Harry i think i will meet you again meaning: i am sure i will not want to meet you again Harry: When shall we meet again?? Girl: Kapan kapan i think we can meet again but not too soon cos i have busy schedule meaning: i never want to see you again kapan kapan is very important in this respect Harry calling girl for appointment: So where shall we meet saturday and when?? Girl: Lets meet in my gym, i first want some aerobics and then i want a long sauna and after that i want to rest, tonight i don't go out. Harry: So did u date many guys from that dating site, and did u fall for some? Girl: Well i dated some but i never met one i fell for so far it only has been dinner and stuff with all of them Meaning: i had quite some hot dates from that site and slept with a number of hot guys from there on the first date, and i hope i will find many more, but i would never even think about sleeping with you not even if we would happen to have 100 more dates after this, which i hope will not happen These are just a few examples, more are to follow i think Harry: So what type of guys do you like Girl: Actually i am only attracted to Asian guys Meaning: i really love and adore bule guys but even though you are a bule i don't feel the least bit of attraction for you Harry on chat So would you like to meet me some time? Girl: Sorry i don't think i have time anytime soon cos i am so busy with work, and i follow classes on saturday, Meaning: i don't want to meet you ever Girl: I am just only looking for friends nothing more Meaning: i am looking for hot sex and one night stands and maybe even a bf if he is really hot but NOT with you Ok, I have read your other posts and basically you are a very negative, egotistical, and not to mention most likely narcissistic. Honestly who wouldn't be turned off by all that negative vibe you send out.. Actually i am very polite and a bit shy. I never would approach a girl if she did not show to me by smiling or whatever signals that she was interested in me and even then i would proceed very cautiously. Actually it never happens that a girl i see in a public spot gives me the eye or signs or smiles that she is interested so up to now i never talked spontaniously to an indo girl in public, but i been in Jkt a long time alltogether. But that i send of a negative vibe, yes i think u r right with that because i really lost my confidence and feel i am the ugliest guy in Jakarta and maybe that vibration i transmit is one of the reasons the girls pretend i am not around. Hi mimpi buruk i think we have chat once on Date in asia-if u remember. Copyright © 1997-2018 Expat Web Site Association. The Living in Indonesia Expat Forum is a sister site of Living in Indonesia, A Site for Expatriates at All rights reserved. The information contained within this forum should not be construed as recommendations upon which you can rely without further personal consideration. None of the postings on this forum constitute offers or solicitations to buy any products or services from the Expat Web Site Association. All opinions and statements are made in a personal capacity by the posters to this forum and they are solely responsible for the contents of their posts.. For further information, please consult our.

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